Sibylla in Jerusalem

When Thierry of Alsace, the Count of Flanders, made his third pilgrimage to the Holy Land in 1157, he took his wife, Sibylla of Anjou. They had been married for over 15 years and had several children who went on to successful careers.

In Jerusalem at the time was Queen Melisende, the Queen of Jerusalem after the death of her father, Baldwin II. Melisende was the second wife of Fulk of Anjou, which made Melisende Sibylla's stepmother (and made Sibylla's father King of Jerusalem jure uxoris ("by right of [his] wife").

Baldwin had four daughters, the youngest of whom, Ioveta, was the abbess of the Benedictine Convent of St. Lazarus in Bethany, an abbey founded by Melisende so that Ioveta could be its abbess. The abbey was founded on the reputed site of the tomb of Lazarus. (see illustration)

Thierry assisted against the Muslims in the siege of Shaizar in northern Syria. The siege fell apart because Thierry argued with Raynald of Châtillon over which of them would take command of the town. Which of the two men was being the more difficult is not easy to know, but Raynald later was killed for his lack of respect.

Sibylla was housed with Ioveta in Bethany while her husband was away fighting. The two women were close in age and became good friends, so much so that Sibylla chose to stay in Jerusalem when Thierry went home, leaving him to see to the raising of their children.

Sibylla became a nun at Ioveta's abbey. She died in Bethany in 1165 and was buried at the abbey.

Sibylla was a great supporter of Queen Melisende, the first female ruler of Jerusalem, who deserves to have her story told. We will start that tomorrow.